Your Identity Matters

What do you identify your soul with? If you don’t know you need to find out. It’s important to your well being. If you identify with a religion or a spiritual theology it becomes part of your public image. Unless you’re super good at hiding your truth, it becomes how others identify you. Who is … Continue reading Your Identity Matters

Love is Love

Love is love. There are many many types of love but the charaistics are the same of all love. You know them already. This is not new to you. Let me paraphrase... Love is patient. Love is kind. Love does not envy. Love does not boast. Love is not proud. Love does not dishonor. Love … Continue reading Love is Love

Love is Kind

People who say they love you then play with your emotions out of spite never loved you. I went through a rather difficult time a few years back when friends who claimed to love me did some very mean things to me. It took a while for me to figure out it wasn’t that I … Continue reading Love is Kind

Are you doing ok?

Let’s take this Monday to think about how we are really mentally, physically, emotionally and spiritually. Listen to your inner most part. Don’t neglect what is important to your survival. Once you have taken care of you, then focus on the humans who are important to your life. You can’t help anyone if you lack … Continue reading Are you doing ok?

Be Unique

It is completely acceptable to live a life that is different from everyone else's life. Be nontraditional and unique. If it works for you and you are happy do not apologize for the life you chose. Your life is your own. It is not for others to decide. It is not disrespectful to your family … Continue reading Be Unique

Look A Man

It is no secret that I have been married more times than the average human. I was never looking for a husband when I found one. I got married for all the wrong reasons. Maybe if I share them with you, you will not make the same mistakes as I did. But wait you say....Aren't … Continue reading Look A Man

That’s What I’ll Be When I Grow Up

I love the Red Hat ladies. They seem to not have a care if people think they are crazy old women. Most of the ones I know are crazy and really don't care what you think. I wonder when they were little girls if they wanted to be confident old women one day? We teach … Continue reading That’s What I’ll Be When I Grow Up

Bless Your Wild Heart

I am about to shake up the world. Maybe not the entire world but my little corner of it. Why should we assume that the world as we know it would fall apart if we reveal our true selves to it? My husband said to me, "Look at Ann Rice, the author. She wrote for … Continue reading Bless Your Wild Heart

What do you want to hear?

Do you want to hear that everything is going back to normal soon when we all know that it will never be normal again? Do you want to hear we are all in the chaos together when we all feel so alone? Do you want to hear all lives matter when you should already know … Continue reading What do you want to hear?

I Have No Idea

No, really I don't. I have no idea why people make things so difficult. Just do what has to be done and leave the extra baggage on the side of the road. What happened was, I wanted to change something. Very simple, click clack boom. The person who was supposed to help me change it … Continue reading I Have No Idea