It’s so easy…

Spending money is so easy. Eating that decadent dessert is so easy. Sleeping later is so easy. Speaking negatively about yourself is so easy. Self discipline is not impossible. It does take work. Being a decent human takes continual attention. If you drop your guard even a little, you find yourself three steps back on … Continue reading It’s so easy…

Love and Hate

I disagree that there is a fine line between love and hate. Rather than two monsters sitting on opposite sides of a line they can exist at the same time. You can love someone and hate them at the same time. This is not a good place to live. It’s a toxic thing. Don’t take … Continue reading Love and Hate

Nature is Beautiful

I’m currently it Texas. It is big, dusty and full of people. The entire place glows in a bright sunshine haze. It’s so different from the blue and green of Florida that I am used too. Same sunshine different brilliance. Humans are the same as nature. If they are allowed to be themselves rather than … Continue reading Nature is Beautiful

Don’t Settle

I know that sometimes the comfortable situation is not the right situation. Do not stay in a place or with a person just because it is comfortable and familiar. I know there is logic in the devil you know theory. You know how to act and how the other will respond. You know how to … Continue reading Don’t Settle

I Choose Peace

We are mistaken when we think our happiness and our peace will come from an external source. Your happiness and peace come from your soul. Yes external things can distract you from your peace. The problem isn’t that things prevent peace or take it away. When you move your focus from peace to the external … Continue reading I Choose Peace

You are allowed to take up space.

You and the things that make you happy are allowed to take up space. It is your responsibility to manage that space so that it does not impede on the space of your fellow humans, especially the humans you love. The mental, emotional, and physical space you need to survive are all on you and … Continue reading You are allowed to take up space.

Sunshine Makes Things Better

I love sunshine. There is no way I could live happy in a climate with little sun light. Try it sometime. If you’re sad go sit out in the sunshine. It’s better if you can go out to a place that is more nature less humans. Sunshine heals the soul.

It’s a Concern

Humans don’t realize how fragile their health can become over time and as we age. It’s concerning when the doctor says “I have your test results.” For a brief second my heart flutters and my stomach leaps. All we can do is what is in our reach to do. Eat better. Move your body. Get … Continue reading It’s a Concern

Take Time

Take time to rest and recharge. Me-Time is not selfish. It is necessary to keep you sane. It helps you to focus on what is important and what is small stuff. I wonder how many murders could have prevented if humans had taken a little Me-Time when they needed it? 🤷🏻‍♀️