Life is too short…

for eating bland food, working at a job you hate, being around people who don’t like you, reading boring books, and wearing uncomfortable clothes. Oh all the wasted time you lose when you ignore things just to keep from causing a disturbance. So eat delicious food, work at jobs you like, keep people around you … Continue reading Life is too short…

Let them Eat Cake

Children are only little for a Short time. They will grow up and leave you before you have a chance to adjust your brain and heart to the idea that they are now grown. So let them eat cake for breakfast, let them play in the rain, and let them be children for as long … Continue reading Let them Eat Cake

Self Loyalty Is a Thing

Be crazy loyal to yourself and to your goals. Keep your eye on your wants, however keep a clear perspective on your needs and needs of your humans. Don’t get so wrapped up in pursuit of goals that you forget to love and be loved. All other things will fall into place if your goal … Continue reading Self Loyalty Is a Thing

What’s Your Symbol

Think about the symbols in your life. If you are married there are rings. If you are a member of a group, fandom there are symbols you display so others can identify you. A symbol is an image of an idea not the idea itself. There is nothing wrong with the display of symbols if … Continue reading What’s Your Symbol

The Best Laid Plans

Take a moment today to rest and think about your path. Where are you going? What are your plans? Maybe you do not have a plan. Do you need a plan? I am more of a day by day person. I tend to not make plans far off in to the future. Doctor's appointments and … Continue reading The Best Laid Plans

Step Back

When something feels wrong, listen to that small voice and step back. Even if it is an emotional or metal step back. If a situation or a person is making you doubt your worth or yourself in anyway, for whatever reason, step back. You owe it to yourself to be mindful of those feelings without … Continue reading Step Back

Let’s Get Real

“The first rule is to keep an untroubled spirit. The second is to look things in the face and know them for what they are.”~ Marcus Aurelius What we have here in this world of ours, in our families, in our communities is a failure to see what is real and what is a deception. … Continue reading Let’s Get Real

Work is Fun

I got my first real job with a paycheck when I was seventeen. Yes, in a fast food restaurant. I liked the fast part and the food part. That was about it. It did not take me long to realize that I didn't want to work where it was hot and loud. I didn't like … Continue reading Work is Fun

Stop Listening

Stop listening to voices who do not know you. Stop listening to conjecture. Stop listening to maybes and what if’s. Leave the hypothetical to the bottom feeders. Listen to the ones who know you better than anyone. Listen only to facts. You know what is right and just. You know truth. Listen to your heart. … Continue reading Stop Listening

Such a Time

We are living in unprecedented times. Yes it is scary with a new virus out there. Yes society seems to be off kilter a bit. Oh, but think of the positive. People can love who they want, wear what they want, be who they are, and achieve so much more than we imagined even just … Continue reading Such a Time