Love is…

Love is being there for your person even when you want to do something else. Love is giving respect to your person. Love is liking your person when they do not like themselves. Love is all the polite things you do for strangers, but doing them because you want to not because they are polite … Continue reading Love is…

Because it’s Friday

Today I’m wearing a tiara. Why? It’s Friday. Did I leave the house with it on? Yes. Sure, maybe people see an adult woman with a tiara and think she’s crazy. I really don’t care what they think. It makes me happy. We need to let our children see us be ourselves. Uninhibited and relaxed. … Continue reading Because it’s Friday

Take me to your Leader

We currently are between leaders. Technically we have a president, still. He leaves office in January, maybe. This uncertainty is causing extreme anxiety for some people. It is out of the hands of the humans who are upset. Sit back and let the system work. There is no infallible system of government. You have to … Continue reading Take me to your Leader

Traditionally I’m Over It

I want to skip the holiday this week. That would be selfish. Americans love their USA holidays. It’s so much stress and does not fit into my focused simple life plan. My children don’t like traditional Thanksgiving food. Often we serve alternative meals. This year we are, for the first time, going to a restaurant … Continue reading Traditionally I’m Over It

Life is Good

You might be tired. You might be broken. You might have no money. You might be depressed. You might be lost in a world of chaos. If you have a person who loves you. Life is good. I don't mean that they just say they love you. Anyone can say they love you and be … Continue reading Life is Good

Save the Thank You

If you are really thankful, say it. If you just say it to be polite you are missing an opportunity to experience gratefulness. In a society of automatic negativity, we should always look for the positive. Genuine thank yous are difficult to come by, cultivate them when you can.

It’s so easy…

Spending money is so easy. Eating that decadent dessert is so easy. Sleeping later is so easy. Speaking negatively about yourself is so easy. Self discipline is not impossible. It does take work. Being a decent human takes continual attention. If you drop your guard even a little, you find yourself three steps back on … Continue reading It’s so easy…

Rocks in The Head

Please don’t be that person who refuses to see that things can be different. Don’t be closed minded and think that only your shiny ideas are the best. Everyone thinks their rocks are the shinier than other people’s rocks.