Adulting, Children, Family, The Right Thing

Day 107

Being a human #107 Protect and provide for the littles. Yours, mine, ours, someone’s kid....makes no difference. Couples make this mistake of putting themselves or their significant other’s needs before the littles. You and your partner are a team. A unit. You are not “me and they”. You are “we”. It is that “we” who… Continue reading Day 107

Adulting, Human, Life, Stand on Truth, Thoughts

Day 105

Being a human #105 Read the signs. Literally and intuitively. Look up at the world in front of you, things are obvious. We spend too much time focused on one point of vision we miss the important things. If you pay attention to the details around you, you will see what wonders you have been… Continue reading Day 105

Adulting, Be Courageous, Good Manners, Human, Life, Respect

Day 102

Being a human #102 Respect yourself and others. You don’t have to like someone to show them respect. Your actions and words of respect reflect your character values not the recipient’s morals. The other person doesn’t have to show you respect in return. That’s on them not you. Respect yourself. Aren’t you worth as much… Continue reading Day 102

Adulting, Be Courageous, Honest, Human

Day 101

Being a human 101 Always be honest. Those who don't like your honestly will remove themselves from your life. Those humans who appreciate your honesty will let you know. Always being honest does not give you permission to be cruel. Be an honest human.

Adulting, Be Radical, Change, Life, Truth

Day 96

Adulting not as much fun as my teenage self thought it would be. Adulting is difficult on a good day when everything is working out like it should. It seems impossible when it isn’t going at all like you thought. I get up, show up and step up. Y’all, I’m tired. Deep in my core… Continue reading Day 96

Be Radical, Change, Hello Monday, Kindness, Love, Thoughts, Truth

Day 95

Loving a person doesn’t make them a good human. Giving a person kindness and showing them that they are loved can sometimes cause goodness to manifest in a human. Sometimes a bad human is just a bad person no matter how much they are loved or how kind you are to them. Only divine love… Continue reading Day 95

Adulting, Be Courageous, Focused Simplicity, Good Manners, Stand on Truth

Day 78

Actions speak a louder truth than the truth you speak with your voice. Show me what is important to you by what you do, not what you say. Show me who you really are, don’t tell me.

Adulting, Be Radical, Good Manners, Stand on Truth

Day 76

Saint Patrick was no saint. There really aren’t saints. People are inherently bad. We are as a species self centered. Most of what motivates humans is the need to survive. It takes ruling over your natural self with your spiritual self to be a saintly human. It’s not easy to be a nice human. Do… Continue reading Day 76

Adulting, Etiquette, Good Manners, Kindness, Life, Looking Forward

Day 68

Be kind when dealing with older humans. It’s very easy for them to get confused. Don’t assume that because they misremembered something that they have dementia. They may just be tired or distracted. Be respectful. One day you will be the old person.