Adulting, Be Radical, Etiquette, Family, God, Honest, Human, Hurt, Kindness, Life, The Right Thing, Truth

Never Seek Revenge

I read a quote today, “Never seek revenge rotten fruit will fall by itself.” As I think about those who have been mean to me, I realize when it all comes down to it, every one of us will get what we deserve. Taking steps to expedite that process for those who did you wrong… Continue reading Never Seek Revenge

Adulting, Devotion, Family, Good Manners, Honest, Kindness, Love

Appreciate Who You Love

So many humans take for granted the people who love them the most. They assume their family and friends will always be there doing what they always do. Don’t make that mistake. Show them you really are thankful for them. That’s that love does.

Adulting, Aging, Change, Family, Honest, Human, Life, Thoughts

Memory is a Strange Friend

I am struggling to remember simple things like conversations with my husband from this morning but ask me what I wore to the 8th grade prom I’ll describe it too you down to the pink asymmetrical hemline. Why is memory so weird? I’m worried that like many of my relatives I will develop dementia. Every… Continue reading Memory is a Strange Friend

Family, Good Manners, Happy, Human, Kindness, Love

Dogs

I was always a cat person. I mean I loved cats. I had a cat since I was six years old. Then I got a dog and my world changed. I am now also a dog person. I still had cats, but dogs treat humans differently than cats. Dogs are love on four feet. They… Continue reading Dogs

Be Radical, Believe, Faith, Family, Jesus, Life, Love

Owls are Wise

Some grandmother's collect salt and pepper shakers, porcelain dolls, pace doilies, quilts, or china sets. My grandmother collected all of those things and more but the catch was it must have an owl on it. She collected all things owls. I asked her why she liked owls and she said, "A wise old owl lived… Continue reading Owls are Wise

Adulting, Be Radical, Day Job, Family, Goals, Honest, Human

I Do what I Want

Remember when you were a young human and you said something like, “I can’t wait to be an adult so I can do what I want”? How’s that going for you? If it is going well tell us your secret. All I want to do is spend as much time with my husband and family… Continue reading I Do what I Want

Adulting, Be Radical, Family, Honest, Human, Kindness, Life

Who Has Your Back

It’s important for humans to know who is fighting for them. If you are willing to be there for someone tell them. If you would do anything for a person, tell them. When they call upon you to help, do what you said you would do. It’s simple.

Adulting, Be Courageous, Change, Family, Focused Simplicity, Good Stress, Grand Adventure, Honest, Human, Life

Stress is Weird

Ever seen a funeral where people start laughing? Ever seen a person colapse with tears? Ever seen someone so frustrated that they growl? Stress is a weird thing. It demands attention. If you ignore it you will get sick or have a mental breakdown. Stress shows up when life is going well and when it… Continue reading Stress is Weird

Adulting, Change, Family, Goals, Grand Adventure, Home, Human, The O'Gara Clan

A Full House

My house is a shambled mess right now. We just moved and are unpacking. I was grumbling about all we have to do and my momma said… “A full house means you have a life”. That is one of the best things my momma every said to me. She is right! It’s a fantastic sight.… Continue reading A Full House

Adulting, Be Courageous, Children, Family, Goals, Human, Life, Love, Relationships, Trust, Truth

What is a Father?

A father can make offspring and walk away. It is not easy to stay and raise your child. It takes work and commitment. Unfortunate for some kids those two things are not required to make children. Humans can make babies and walk away. They can give their children away to others. Humans have a choose… Continue reading What is a Father?