I Make Mistakes

I’m not perfect. I admit to making mistakes. Sometimes small mistakes and sometimes big ones. Still, I am just a human. I did not make a mistake when I promised him forever. Nor did I mess up when I took his name. My marriage is the best thing to happen to me. I know that … Continue reading I Make Mistakes

Thinking and Wishing

Doughnuts…yep I need doughnuts….soft warm doughnuts…sweet yummy glazed with chocolate or maybe powdered doughnuts ….sigh... I’m on a eating plan. No no no,..not a diet an eating plan. That’s what it’s called. It’s for my own good. It’s also for the good of others. If I get healthier I can live longer and torment them … Continue reading Thinking and Wishing

Read a Children’s Story Book

If you feel sad or bored read a children’s book. I just read Mary Poppins. So fun. Reading children’s books reminds me how it felt when my imagination was louder than my doubt. When I was less afraid and more adventurous. Suddenly my feet feel lighter.

Do Nothing

Sometimes the best thing you can do for your person is nothing. Just spend time together in the same breathing space, doing individual things and occasionally chatting. Show your love by being present and in the moments with the human you like best.

Forgiveness is Ugh!

I know that forgiveness is necessary. I have forgiven so much. Some of it won’t stay forgiven. I have to forgive it over and over. I can forgive however I cannot forget. The thing is, I don’t have to forget. I just have to forgive. Then I have to release the anger. I’m working on … Continue reading Forgiveness is Ugh!

Dance. Sing. Scream.

When you feel like dancing, dance. When you want to sing, sing. When you want to scream, scream. What’s the worse thing that could happen? Someone might think you’re crazy. They might ask you what you are doing. Then again, someone might dance, sing or scream with you. Be yourself. You never know who might … Continue reading Dance. Sing. Scream.

Happy is a choice

My MeMa used to tell me, “You have the same pants to get glad in.” You can choose to let the situation around your dictate how you react or you can control your thoughts. Give yourself a moment to feel what is in your heart and then look for the happy bits. Choose to be … Continue reading Happy is a choice