Tag: Relationships
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Why so Snappy? Pt 2
Why do we snap off at the people we love most? Sometimes I wonder why we speak so short and rudely to our family members. It’s like we don’t care that they have feelings. I don’t mean to bark but I do. Always after I use a harsh tone of voice I feel so bad.…
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What’s my name?
When the days are rough and you are so exhausted that you can’t even remember who you are, it’s nice to have that one person to come home too. My husband always has dinner waiting and arms to wrap around me when I come home. He knows me like no other human knows me. He…
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You have No Right
You have no right to complain if you chose to walk a way and now someone else has what you had. If you know what your heart will lose and you choose to leave, that’s on you. Weigh your options carefully.
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I can’t keep track.
Days run together like streams converging in the river. I can’t remember what day it is or what my name is. My husband says, “I got you.” Suddenly, all is right in the world.
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I Make Mistakes
I’m not perfect. I admit to making mistakes. Sometimes small mistakes and sometimes big ones. Still, I am just a human. I did not make a mistake when I promised him forever. Nor did I mess up when I took his name. My marriage is the best thing to happen to me. I know that…
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Do Nothing
Sometimes the best thing you can do for your person is nothing. Just spend time together in the same breathing space, doing individual things and occasionally chatting. Show your love by being present and in the moments with the human you like best.
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Calibration
Think about what you do for others. Can you do your amazing thing for other humans with other humans? Things are always better with two or more hearts and minds working together for the same goal of happiness. Try calibration.
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Don’t Kill Yourself
I know some of us are OCD about keeping things organized. Some people are not. Those humans who are not drive us who are absolutely insane. Not intentionally, but they do. If you don’t think God has a sense of humor then tell me why humans who are super organised and others who are not…
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He Loves Me Quirky
My husband lets me be me. The fact that I have to say that he “lets” me is a sad thing. It tells you that I was not always free to do as I wish. I have never understood why people, both male and female, think that as soon as they are in a relationship…
Brendan & Lori O'Gara 