Brendan & Lori O'Gara

My favorite thing about me is my decisiveness.

It has taken work for me to become a decisive person. In the past it would take me a long time to make a decision. Often I would get overwhelmed and just let someone else decide. I used to hem and haw when asked a question.

Now when asked to make a choice, I practice the pause and answer truthfully. If I need time to make a decision, I set a deadline, do my research and decide.

Allowing others to make decisions for me doesn’t always turn out well. Then I have no right to complain. So now, I just decide and deal with the consequences of my choices.

Don’t put the key to your happiness in someone else’s pocket. Decide for yourself.

Light & Love, Lori