If you want to see a positive change in your life you have to actually be positive and act in a positive way. You can’t expect things to be positive. Life doesn’t work that way. Don’t wait for others to change things for you or for other humans to change to suit you.
How does that saying about change go?
“We but mirror the world. All the tendencies present in the outer world are to be found in the world of our body. If we could change ourselves, the tendencies in the world would also change. As a man changes his own nature, so does the attitude of the world change towards him. This is the divine mystery supreme. A wonderful thing it is and the source of our happiness. We need not wait to see what others do.”
― Mahatma Gandhi