What’s Worse?

Not having friends at all or having a long term relationship fade away? Is it better to have one close friend or to have many acquaintances? I had a friend who was content with mediocrity and I was not. When I decided that I wanted more to life than what I had, that friend didn’t … Continue reading What’s Worse?

Take Time

Take time to rest and recharge. Me-Time is not selfish. It is necessary to keep you sane. It helps you to focus on what is important and what is small stuff. I wonder how many murders could have prevented if humans had taken a little Me-Time when they needed it? 🤷🏻‍♀️

Open the Door

See that door? Yeah that one you are scared to open. It’s not going to open itself. Doors don’t work that way. Sometimes you have to pull it hard to open it. Don’t wait for someone to open it for you. Here’s the other thing about doors. If it’s locked look for a key. If … Continue reading Open the Door

I Make Mistakes

I’m not perfect. I admit to making mistakes. Sometimes small mistakes and sometimes big ones. Still, I am just a human. I did not make a mistake when I promised him forever. Nor did I mess up when I took his name. My marriage is the best thing to happen to me. I know that … Continue reading I Make Mistakes

Thinking and Wishing

Doughnuts…yep I need doughnuts….soft warm doughnuts…sweet yummy glazed with chocolate or maybe powdered doughnuts ….sigh... I’m on a eating plan. No no no,..not a diet an eating plan. That’s what it’s called. It’s for my own good. It’s also for the good of others. If I get healthier I can live longer and torment them … Continue reading Thinking and Wishing

Slow Soft Quiet

Slow, soft quiet. Those are my favorite humans. They move with purpose, they step lightly around other people's hearts and they speak quietly. I can do without fast and loud humans who talk and move like the world is ending. Brash and chaotic. No thank you. Surround yourself with the humans you like best.

Read a Children’s Story Book

If you feel sad or bored read a children’s book. I just read Mary Poppins. So fun. Reading children’s books reminds me how it felt when my imagination was louder than my doubt. When I was less afraid and more adventurous. Suddenly my feet feel lighter.